Category Archives: Inspiration

Rewiring Success

23rd February 2013

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A Pinterest favorite, and beautiful artwork found here.

 

I’ve spent the past five and a half months in a women-only leadership program (more on that soon). The experience has been fantastic and has opened my eyes to growing in the workspace, both personally and professionally, but more than anything I have spent a significant amount of time thinking about my future and success.

Before we go any further, let me preface the rest of this by saying, I certainly haven’t reached a come to Jesus, OK I get it, hallelujah moment about where to go next or what my magic yellow brick road of career path looks like (though man, I wish someone would hand that map over).

It has, however, forced me to think about how I define success.

Earlier this week, I read an article about work-life balance which hit the nail on the head perfectly for where I am currently. What if our happiness isn’t about the hours, the balance, the clients or the people alone, but starts with the root of accomplishment?

So it starts here: how do I define success?

The article sites a study where a group of workers was forced to take a night a week away from their smart phones and email. The discussion following was incredibly interesting:

The people who thought themselves addicted to work were really addicted to success and its signals. So if you want to build a team culture where people are encouraged to unplug and renew, rewire the signaling. Cheer when people come in and say that they unplug; slap their wrist when they don’t. Source

Going back to the mechanics.

What if we moved past the lists, the checkboxes and the powerpoint slides and focused on the relationships, the conversations and where work would lead to in the next five years? After all, today and tomorrow will eventually add up to a career, right?

Rewire the system, take a look at the mechanics and maybe this twenty-something can turn those check-lists into change.

Ways to make your week more awesome

30th January 2013

I stumbled across this video this week and couldn’t help but smile.


I’ve been in a bit of a rut this week myself, struggling to find the awesome in the days and keeping from just going through the mundane. It happens to all of us and it’s certainly nothing to be afraid of, but how do you make every day awesome with a to-do list a mile long? I sat down to think about just that and to get myself out of my boring mood. Here’s where I landed:

  • Share something nice. You never know how someone else started their day and your compliment could make the difference. Plus it just feels good
  • Challenge yourself to do one little thing different each day: take the stairs, run a new route, stay OFF of Facebook for a day. Switch it up and keep things interesting
  • Say hello to the person next to you in the elevator. It’s not awkward, and if it is, it will make you laugh in no more than 45 seconds
  • Go a whole weekend without wearing make-up or blowdrying your hair. You can’t imagine how refreshing it is. {And yes, you can actually leave the house looking like that. Seriously, no one worth your time is judging you}
  • Treat a friend to dinner or drinks, without telling them. Yes, your salary is small, but the next part is payback. Make that overdue “we should hang out again soon” actually happen in less than three months. Surprise + delight + more time in the future with the people you love, how could that be better?
  • Call someone. On a phone. There is nothing better than a catch up phone date with your BFF from high school / your brother / your Godmother. Trust me, it’s the highlight of my week, every week.

What else would you add to the list? How to you brighten an otherwise ordinary day?

Unfinished Resolutions

13th January 2013

I spent yesterday morning wandering about one of my favorite Atlanta places with some of my favorite people, and a few new friends as well. I could go on and on about the treasures of Scott’s Antique Market for hours (Like the blue Mason jars I scored for $3.75 each – seriously?! – or the dinosaur family that stole my heart), but today I want to focus on something a little different than my love for the unfinished and antique (sort of).

One of the girls I met on yesterday’s group trip is a physician’s assistant, and as I’m in marketing, I love hearing about other’s professional lives that are so different than my own. She told us a story of a patient this week who is in his late 80s, still in relatively flawless health and how she asked him why he thought he had made it this far, his response, “I don’t worry. What ever is going to happen, will happen. There is no sense wasting my time with anxiety.”

So simple, but so powerful. My grandfather passed away a few years ago just shy of his 91st birthday and I can honestly say looking back he embraced much of the same mentality. He held numerous careers, followed his passions and had a love so deep for his large family that I’m not sure how he held it all in.

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We may be a few weeks into 2013, but I know I could certainly resolve to do a little less worrying, a little less stressing and a lot more following my heart and listening to those Bigger than myself. Inspired by this weekend, here’s my slightly late, slightly lofty, but all around possible 2013 resolution list:

  • Worry less, act more
  • Say what’s on my mind – written and spoken
  • Follow my passions
  • Continue to task risks and step out of my comfort zone
  • Move a little slower – take a walk, wonder the market a little longer, resolve to spend more time cooking, reading and running
  • Share the good, the bad and the fantastic moments by myself – and with those around me